After missing Gong Li, he met the love of his life, and the tough guy married for 30 years without having an affair, spoiling his wife into a little princess.
After missing Gong Li, he met the love of his life, and the tough guy married for 30 years without having an affair, spoiling his wife into a little princess.
May our life also sparkle under the nourishment of love.

when it comes to the most popular TV series recently, "that Mountain and that Sea" is definitely on the list.

not only brought "Wang Fang" on CCTV as soon as it started, winning the first place in the ratings for seven days in a row, but also triggered a renewed discussion of poverty alleviation dramas.

as a poverty alleviation drama, "that Mountain and that Sea" does not have the serious stereotype of the drama, and its picture is simple and approachable. at the beginning of the first scene, the audience is asked to say "one second into the play".

apart from the gripping plot, the most anticipated thing in the play is the re-integration of he Zhengjun and Zhang Guangbei.

their roles in "Zhao Gang" and "Chu Yunfei" in "Bright Sword" have been remembered by the audience for many years.

despite the fact that he Zhengjun has an awe-inspiring "heroic face", he is no less a villain.

he Zhengjun once played the No. 1 villain in "No Snow," performing the sunny and unfathomable deputy mayor in a clear and thorough manner.

on the screen, he Zhengjun often shows people as a "tough guy", but in life, he is a veritable "wife madman."

he and his wife Fan Yu have been married for 30 years without having an affair, and now they are about to turn 60, and they still spoil each other as little princesses.

miss Gong Li

meet the love of my life

Liu Yunlong once said, "Lao he is definitely the kind of person who is very handsome with sense of security."

he Zhengjun was once a "school boy" in Chinese opera, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, green and literary, and was especially popular with girls.

Gong Li is one of the girls who come to him for advice on acting skills every three or five times.

once, Ni Dahong went back to her dormitory after playing basketball and heard the sound of guitar coming from the door.

it turns out that he Zhengjun is playing the guitar and Gong Li is singing to the rhythm on the opposite side. The picture is very pleasing to the eye.

Ni Dahong had to sit outside the dormitory alone and wait for Gong Li to leave before entering the house.

everyone is optimistic about this handsome couple, but he Zhengjun has been slow to take action. His reason is that "dating is not allowed at school."

later, Gong Li was picked by Zhang Yimou to shoot the film, and the two missed it completely.

some mistakes in life may be for a better encounter.

in 1990, he Zhengjun was filming in Yunnan and met the love of his life.

Yunnan is picturesque, but he Zhengjun's eyes are always drawn by a girl.

after making inquiries, I know that her name is Fan Yu, and she came to the show with relatives to relax.

he Zhengjun wanted to get close to Fan Yu, but could not find a reason, so he finally got the opportunity at the boot party.

seeing Fan Yu sitting alone in the corner, he Zhengjun picked up his glass and strode up to her with sonorous and forceful words: "here, I propose a toast to you."

Fan Yu was frightened by this command-like "toast". She drank a glass of wine vaguely.

later, while participating in the program, Fan Yu recalled the past and could not help complaining: "he has a strange tone. How did I know he was coming after me?"

with his first contact, he Zhengjun gradually became bold.

wherever Fan Yu appears, there is he Zhengjun.

he will put delicious dishes into Fan Yu's bowl during dinner, and he will also chat with Fan Yu about the fun of filming and look forward to the future together.

he Zhengjun is dignified and gentle and considerate, and his attentive appearance in acting is even more handsome.

in the day-to-day relationship, Fan Yu's heart gradually approached him, and the two fell in love!

the beauty of first love makes both of them as sweet as living in a honeypot.

but the days are fast, and when the play is over, he Zhengjun will return to Shanghai.

how can two people who are passionately in love bear deep thoughts?

as long as he Zhengjun is not filming, he Zhengjun will go to Yunnan to see Fan Yu and talk on the phone when he can't.

long-distance calls are expensive, but there is too much to say.

sometimes, when he Zhengjun has run out of money, he can only bet his ID card with his boss.

Travel and telephone charges have used up almost all of he Zhengjun's savings.

the romance of straight men

always in action

these days finally ended two years later.

this year, Fan Yu came to Shanghai, and the two lovers officially entered into marriage.

at this time, he Zhengjun had no savings and the two could only live in a 9-square-meter singleton dormitory.

such conditions distressed Fan Yu's parents, but she was duty-bound to look back.

in order to make Fan Yu live a good life, he Zhengjun made a movie desperately, but no matter how hard he tried, he was always lukewarm.

this makes Fan Yu very confused: he Zhengjun is good-looking and has acting skills, but why can't he always be popular?

after observing for a period of time, she found that he Zhengjun was a "good old man" who never fought or robbed, regardless of remuneration or script, as long as he had a role to play.

after finding the crux of the problem, Fan Yu decided to become he Zhengjun's agent and choose a suitable script for him.

in 2005, the shooting of the military drama "shining Sword" began, and he Zhengjun's elegant image made him the best candidate for "Zhao Gang" in the director's mind.

however, after receiving the script, he Zhengjun made difficulties: at this time, the child was still young and the shooting was far away in Shanxi, he was worried that Fan Yu was too tired to take care of the children alone.

at the critical moment, Fan Yu encouraged him:

"Lao he, this is a rare good screenplay. It is not easy for an actor to have a good play in his life. With me at home, you can rest assured. "

Fan Yu's words reassured he Zhengjun.

afterwards, he sighed that if he missed the "shining sword", he might regret a generation.Son.

after "shining Sword" was broadcast, his father, who had never praised he Zhengjun, commented that it was "OK," but watched the play several times in private.

works carved with heart will glow.

"shining Sword" aroused heated discussion as soon as it came out, and it became an absolutely popular style at that time with its high reputation and ratings.

Bright Sword has been replayed more than 3000 times in the past 17 years.

even in Douban, which has a strict score, it got a high score of 9.5.

he Zhengjun's interpretation makes Zhao Gang shine.

Zhang Guangbei, who plays "Chu Yunfei", even said: "if it hadn't been for he Zhengjun, Liangjian wouldn't have been so popular."

he Zheng's arms, all kinds of dramas come one after another, it is common to make three or four movies a year, and the burden of the family falls on Fan Yu.

at this time, the physical condition of he Zhengjun's father was not very optimistic, so Fan Yu took him to his side to take care of him.

Fan Yu knows that her father is the most concerned about he Zhengjun. She often takes pictures of her father and shares her father's daily life with him.

he Zhengjun sometimes goes home, and father and son have a long talk.

what my father said most to he Zhengjun was:

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"Fan Yu has not been easy these years. You must be kind to her!"

in 2007, Father he died.

because he Zhengjun was out filming, he Zhengjun couldn't see his father for the last time, which became his biggest regret.

fortunately, Fan Yu's daily photos let him see things and miss others.

whenever he goes home, he Zhengjun will see Fan Yu busy alone, very distressed.

gradually, he learned to do housework. He could not only cook well, but also sew and mend.

when her husband is at home, Fan Yu will also be busy and let him take more care of himself and his family.

A host once asked Fan Yu, "aren't you worried that your husband is in show business and there are so many beautiful women around him?"

"No, because he is very unromantic. He is a good husband, but by no means a good lover. " Fan Yu answered with a smile.

she complained that he Zhengjun could not even say "dear", and he Zhengjun giggled.

in fact, he Zhengjun has been giving full and rainy sense of security for many years of marriage.

he not only keeps the habit of talking to his wife every day and sharing funny stories about filming, but also deliberately keeps his distance from other actresses. He has made his debut for 36 years and has never had an affair.

the romance of straight men is never in the mouth, but in the action.

in he Zhengjun's home, his advice to Fan Yu has always been posted on the refrigerator:

"be sure to go to bed before 12:00 at night, eat regularly, be full, eat whatever you want, and don't be afraid of getting fat."... "

as long as he is at home, he Zhengjun will personally supervise the completion of Fan Yu.

No matter how happy the relationship is, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels.

he once said, "it's not easy for Fan Yu to run this family. I can't repay her except being kind to her."

Fan Yu, who started a family alone, became a beloved little princess around he Zhengjun.

have you in this life

three people are lucky

they want to include two people's names in their daughter's name to commemorate their love.

but when the surnames of two people are combined, they become a "box lunch". How can a little girl call such a name?

the two thought over and over and finally decided on "he Hugo" to show that it was "the fruit of love between he Zhengjun and Fan Yu."

after having a daughter, Fan Yu accompanied the child wholeheartedly to grow up, personally took the child to and from school, and made a nutritious breakfast for the child.

under the cultivation of Fan Yu, her daughter was self-disciplined and worked hard, and by virtue of her own efforts, she was admitted to the attached high school.

and he Zhengjun became a "super nanny".

he mended all the clothes his daughter broke when she was a child.

to this end, he also developed a unique skill, completely unable to see the trace that the clothes had been sewn.

his daughter likes small armbands, so he often takes his work to the crew and sews it for his daughter when he is free.

once, when he came home at night, he saw his daughter washing and getting ready to go to bed. He went over to say hello to her.

I thought my daughter would hug him, but the daughter turned into the room and asked her mother, "Why did Dad come to Shanghai?"

he Zhengjun had a sore nose and almost burst into tears.

when he is not filming, he cooks for his daughter and works as a driver, and his daughter's parent-teacher meeting will not be missed.

in 2016, my daughter will face the college entrance examination.

he Zhengjun directly stopped work for a year, turned down all the drama appointments, and devoted himself to accompanying his daughter at school.

"I want to be by her side at all the important moments of her life."

his daughter did not let him down and was admitted to the university with excellent grades.

once in a program, he Zhengjun recorded a song, which his daughter praised repeatedly after listening to it, which made he Zhengjun excited for a long time.

Parental love is the best gift for children.

growing up in love, my daughter is graceful and sunny.

now, he Zhengjun is 59 years old. when he is not filming, he and his wife squeeze the subway, go to the vegetable market, travel with the family and go to museums. He is always the best photographer.

for him, daily trivialities are the happiest things.

it is said that love makes people soft.

after soaking in love for a long time, straight men of steel have also learned to be romantic.

he Zhengjun not only maintained a sense of ritual with his wife during the festival, but also posted photos on social media to show their love, sweetly calling his wife "little princess".

with the nourishment of love, Fan Yu is also full of happy vitality.

she ran in the fields with he Zhengjun, went skiing and danced together.

from first love to wedding dress, from youth to white head, meeting each other is the blessing of their lives.

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May our lives be nourished by love and sparkle.

the original title "tough guy in" shining Sword "he Zhengjun: met the love of his life after missing Gong Li, married for 30 years without having an affair, and spoiled his wife into a little princess."

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