when we were young, we had no tall buildings and lived in bungalows and tiled houses.

the neighbors often come and go, walk around each other and visit each other.

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now we have grown up, living conditions are good, living in residential buildings, neighborhood neighbors do not know, slowly do not have the habit of visiting.

in today's society, everyone works hard for a living.

Wechat is often used to contact relatives and friends by telephone.

if you want to get together and chat, you usually go out, in taverns, in restaurants, but seldom at home.

these four kinds of people are often the ones who don't like to visit or other people to come to their own house.

people who are not in a good relationship and are afraid of getting into trouble

there are some people in life who seldom invite others to their homes and do not like others to visit.

is because the other person does not have a good relationship with him, neither a close family member nor a heart-to-heart friend.

if you come to visit your home, both sides will be uncomfortable.

because the relationship is general and the friendship is still shallow, I am afraid that the other person will come to his own home and will secretly compare it in his heart.

once you go out and talk to others, judge and point at your own family.

get yourself into trouble and embarrass yourself.

people who pay attention to personal privacy

everyone has different aesthetic and standards for their own home.

A home that thinks it is warm and tidy may be in the eyes of others, just the opposite.

if others visit their own house, they will judge the family income through the family environment, home furnishings, and decoration.

those who pay attention to personal privacy do not want to present their home to outsiders, be evaluated by outsiders, and compare with outsiders.

coupled with the busy work on weekdays, sometimes it is too late to clean up, for fear of being too messy and being laughed at.

so I have an aversion to door-to-door visits, and refuse if I can.

people who are not good at cooking and are tired

when other people visit their own house, they usually have to stay for dinner.

if you eat at home, you have to clean up and prepare food in advance.

in order to cook a meal, enter the vegetable market early and choose the ingredients carefully, plus washing, deep-frying and cooking, which not only takes time, but also causes backache and backache.

coupled with poor cooking, food taste is not good, afraid of poor hospitality, let others dissatisfied.

so many people would rather spend money on a treat than invite others to dinner.

spend the whole day in the kitchen, and you can't chat with the guests.

it is better to eat and chat outside, saving time and worry, and saving face.

likes quiet and hates noisy people

Home is the place to relax.

when other people visit your house, you should entertain and chat with you. You don't have any time and space of your own.

if you take care of your family, there are children, adults talking and laughing, children playing and chasing, the whole family becomes a noisy place;

if both families have children, there will be a little friction over toys, which will make adults unhappy and resentment.

their own home, like their own and family existence, accompany parents and children, quiet and warm.

when other people come to visit, the house is noisy and noisy. People who are used to being quiet are hard to accept.

so after a long time, it has become a habit, and it is very resistant to the fact that others come to visit.

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in real life, more and more people don't like other people to visit or go to other people's homes.

it's not that they are unsociable, but they don't want to cause trouble to themselves and others.

in fact, a really good relationship between people has nothing to do with whether they visit or not.

as long as you are sincere and sincere, you will be intimate no matter how far away you are. if you are hypocritical, visiting is asking for trouble.

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