Dickens said:

"A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom."

if you don't have a good mentality, everything will be messed up. If you have a good mindset, everything will go well.

A good attitude can make us optimistic and open-minded, have the ability to overcome the difficulties we face, and take our time.

A good state of mind can make us indifferent to fame and wealth, know how to cherish it, and be content.

people with a good mindset will be calm and calm when things happen, and will not compete with each other.

Let bygones be bygones, be optimistic and positive, and always be grateful.

calm down when something happens

people with a good mindset are calm when things go wrong.

there is a saying in the Jingjing Sutra: "people can always be quiet, and heaven and earth will return."

if a person has peace of mind, then the power of heaven and earth will gather in his life.

calmness is not only a wise attitude, but also a rare open-minded and calm.

in life, everyone will encounter confusion and problems.

some people become irritable and irritable when they encounter problems and fall into negative emotions. as a result, they not only do not help, but make things worse.

and some people, even in the face of unexpected situations, can be calm, not swayed by emotions, analyze problems rationally and calmly, and solve problems skillfully.

A thing is a blessing or a curse, the key lies in what kind of mentality to deal with.

Don't panic, be less impatient, be more calm;

think before you speak, be less emotional and more rational.

only when you are calm and calm, can you better solve the problem, leave less regrets, and not be trapped in mundane things.

nothing can be compared with each other

people with a good mindset can't compete with each other in everything.

I have heard a Zen saying:

"there is nothing in the world, but troubles come from being brave. If you ask for too much, there will be no place to put your heart. "

when you think about it, it is true.

some people fight all their lives, compete all their lives, compete with others and get angry with themselves.

the more you argue, the more you lose; the harder you compete, the less happy you are.

fight for interests, relatives and friends turn against each other; fight for right and wrong, break up feelings; fight for right and wrong, and make enemies everywhere.

compare the house with others, the car, the husband, the child, make the day worse and worse, and make yourself physically and mentally exhausted.

because he is competitive, he is not at peace; because of comparison, life is never satisfied.

win the truth, lose the pattern; compare the high and low, lose yourself.

there are not so many people and things worth entangling in our life, and to let others go is to let ourselves go.

in life, who is not looking up at others while being looked up by others, let go of vanity and obsession, and just be yourself.

sometimes, if you don't fight, it's not cowardice, it's not worth it.

No comparison, not laziness, but unnecessary.

do not compete with each other, slow down your time with your own rhythm and enjoy the present.

the past is cleared in time

Wong Kar-wai once said:

"people's biggest troubles,

is that the memory is too good, if you can forget everything, every day will be a new beginning, how happy it will be. "

most of the time, we are sad because we can't let go of the past, and we suffer because we can't forget the past.

but life is short and the rest of life is too expensive, so why embarrass yourself for the past?

once the feud between right and wrong is no longer worth entangling; there is no need for obsession with the gains and losses of the past.

when you are in love, treat each other sincerely; when you are not in love, I am safe. When you get it, your heart is calm; when you lose it, you can be calm.

as the saying goes, it is better to see clearly than to see light, and it is better to see thoroughly than to see light.

what you experience is a story, and what follows is the rest of your life.

as written in "break up":

"the best release in the world is to let yourself go and don't mess with the past, because it's gone, don't mess with reality, because you have to go on."

A man should be like water, follow the good and flow, be at peace with fate, be able to let go of the burden of the heart, let go of the past, in order to take a good road in the future.

Let bygones be bygones in time, do not grieve the present, do not worry about the future.

optimistic and positive in case of trouble

psychologist Festinger once said:

"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, while the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens."

We can't choose our own lives, but we can choose to use

what kind of mindset to face it.

We can't change the 10% results, but we can decide the 90% life with an optimistic and positive attitude.

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Life is not only trivial chicken feathers, but also ideals and love, so don't frown all day long.

in this life, one can learn to grow only through suffering, so don't just think about chewing sweetly.

the road of life is always rough and rugged, high and low, so don't expect a smooth journey.

one's true optimism is not in good times, but in good times.Calm in frustration, self-confidence in insipid, calm in hardship.

as Plath said:

"an optimist sees an opportunity in every calamity, while a pessimist sees some sorrow in every opportunity."

optimism is not only an attitude towards life, but also an upward driving force in one's heart.

when things are difficult, look on the bright side. Sometimes things will take a turn for the better when they change a state of mind.

when you worry too much, don't compete, do more happy things, and make yourself happy is the most important.

when something happens, you are optimistic and positive, you often smile on your face, and good luck is always around.

always be grateful

people with a good mindset often have a grateful heart.

Daniel Defoe wrote in Robinson Crusoe:

"We always feel lacking and dissatisfied because of our lack of gratitude for what we have got."

there are many times when we find that the more a person has, the happier he or she is.

but the more grateful people are, the happier they will be.

people are always used to taking everything for granted when they are going well, and only when they are in trouble do they know the value of the ordinary.

all efforts in this world should not be ignored, and all gains should be appreciated.

be grateful for all the encounter and companionship. It is lucky to meet the good in life, to grow up to meet the bad, and to meet without regret.

be grateful for all the experiences and tribulations. It is accidental to go along with the wind and flow, but it is normal to stumble and stumble. Experience is growth and live up to the present.

know how to be grateful, to know that it is not easy to get, to know that the present is valuable, to find the beauty of life and to cherish it.

as Gide wrote in Food on Earth:

"always be grateful, and I know how to turn everything that comes to me into happiness."

gratitude is not only our attitude towards life, but also the way we love life.

be grateful, everything you encounter is beautiful; if you have a good heart, everything you encounter is warm.

always be grateful to find more surprises in life and cherish every ordinary and precious day.

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some people say: "too many troubles in the world are caused by storms in our hearts."

mindset is not the whole of life, but it can control your whole life.

time flies, life is short, look down on things, relax your heart, be optimistic and be grateful.

as long as the heart is full of purity and joy, there is nothing to worry about in life.

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: Xuan Zi, source

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