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I have heard such a sentence:

"the attitude of a person replying to your message largely determines your place in his heart.

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indeed, the details can be seen in the hearts of the people, and he treats you as he treats your news.

if he cares about you, he will reply your message in a second.

if he doesn't care about you, he can't read back your message.

his snub, perfunctory, and non-reply seem to be busy, but in fact they are all just excuses for refusal.

if you have these kinds of people on Wechat, delete them as soon as possible.

people who don't reply to your messages

there is a saying:

"in the past, horses were slow, and a wild goose book was only the end of love. In the current era of mobile phones, not replying for a long time is the position of attitude. "

I think so.

at any time, people will not treat important things casually.

people who want to take you home are on their way east, south, west and east.

people who want to reply to you are online 24 hours a day.

and those who can't read back to your message, to put it bluntly, they don't have you at all.

you waited eagerly to hear from him, but he scoffed at your interruptions.

you think he is too busy at work and too busy to notice your news.

but actually, he just doesn't want to talk to you.

there is a very classic clip in the movie he doesn't really like you that much.

Gigi, one of the heroines, finally met her satisfied male guest Connor after several rounds of blind dates.

Gigi exchanged contact information with Connor the night she met him.

when the date was over and Connor was about to leave, Gigi repeatedly told him to remember to send her a message or call her when she got home.

she is looking forward to their next meeting.

however, one day, two days, three days, or even a week passed, and Connor did not reply to Gigi's message or call her.

Gigi went to the bar where they first met to wait for Connor every day, but Connor never showed up for a week.

she couldn't figure out why Connor didn't reply to her message and come to the appointment, though he was very satisfied that night.

until Alex, an employee at the bar, told her the truth.

Alex said to her:

"if a man doesn't care much about you on the surface, then he really doesn't care about you, without exception."

Cai Kangyong also said:

"if he misses you, he will look for you; if he wants you, he will say; if he cares about you, he will show his true feelings; if none of this has happened, then he will not bother you."

Yes, in these days when people never leave their mobile phones, unless they are really unimportant, no one will be too busy not to reply to messages.

those who reply to you at any time may not necessarily love you very much.

but people who are always too busy for you must not like you so much.

so don't stay on Wechat for those who don't reply to your messages.

the person who perfunctory with your message

I don't know if you've ever experienced this situation.

is when you cheerfully send him or her what you want to say, share your happiness with him, and expect him to respond to your equal enthusiasm.

you make a long speech, but he cherishes his words like gold.

you go on and on, but he is silent.

sometimes it is more cruel to be perfunctory than not to reply.

after all, the human heart can withstand rejection, but it cannot withstand snub.

once saw a movie in which the relationship between the heroine and the hero became more and more insipid after they had been married for many years.

every time a wife sends her husband Wechat to share what she has seen and heard with him, she receives only a few words in reply.

she says she doesn't know when it started, and the conversation between them is getting shorter and shorter.

speaking on Wechat is like a routine, with no emojis and modal particles.

all exchanges are bound to end in three rounds and five sentences.

not only on Wechat, but also in life.

when the wife wants to say something to her husband, the husband ignores her.

although they are husband and wife, they live under the same roof, but they are as estranged as two strangers.

some people say, "the so-called perfunctory is always an excuse, but the real reason is that we don't care." Since I don't care, I naturally don't know how to cherish it. "

Yes.

people who don't care about you always have a reason, just like those who are absent always have a reason.

but true love needs a response and a two-way trip.

every second you don't take seriously, you want to withdraw your good things a little bit, and when your enthusiasm runs out, you want to exit politely.

because of your dignity and pride, you are not allowed to love so humbly.

also because his perfunctory is the best proof that he doesn't love you.

No matter how deep the feelings between people,Can't stand snub and perfunctory. No matter how hot the heart is, it can't stand repeated neglect and trampling.

so, those who perfunctory with your news, don't stay on Wechat.

the person who hurt you

maybe there are such people on your Wechat.

every time I talk to you, I always pick your sore spot and hurt people with words.

I heard you Lin Zi say that one of his friends always spoke with thorns and stabbed people unexpectedly.

if you are happy to share something interesting with him, he not only is not interested, but also pours cold water on you.

"there's nothing to be happy about. You've never seen the world before."

if you complain to him about an unhappy thing, instead of standing on your side and supporting you, he will say:

"Why are you the only one who feels that way? the problem must be with you."

it is rare for you to send a picture in your moments. Instead of praising you for being good-looking, he will also have a quality

you:

Compliment your decent grace in our royal queen collection. Our latest trends and styles are on sale right now!

"it's P, isn't it? you don't look like this at all."

every time I chat with him, Lin Zi will choke on his friend's words and get angry.

over time, Linzi didn't want to talk to him.

as the saying goes, a good word warms you in three winters, and a bad word hurts you in June.

the power of language, especially its lethality, trumps thousands of troops.

in a decent sentence, a relationship is close and stable.

if you don't say it well, no matter how intimate a relationship is, it will collapse.

as he Jing once said, "praise can be blurted out, but slander should be thought twice."

those who frequently hurt you and embarrass you with words don't have to stay on Wechat.

they hurt you again and again and say mean things to you. They don't care if you get hurt or if you can bear it.

but you have to care, stay away from them and protect yourself.

stop making excuses for those who don't reply to your messages.

those who are perfunctory with your news, don't continue to be patient with him.

Don't forgive the person who hurt you again and again.

when you meet these three kinds of people, don't leave them in Wechat.

what you should be grateful for, remember and give should be the one who responds to your message in time, responds to your enthusiasm seriously, and takes good care of you.

from now on, may you be weary and affectionate not to be disappointed.

May every time you give, you can go both ways.

, share with you.