many people say that if you have a child, you will know whether you marry a person or a dog.

now, there is another one, when you are sick, Yang, but also see the people around you.

A woman posted a video in Heze, Shandong Province. She had just been diagnosed positive the night before and had a high fever of 39 degrees.

people who have had a high fever know that this feeling is very uncomfortable. Not only do people feel a little confused, they have no appetite, and they simply do not have the strength to take care of themselves.

what is even more painful is that I feel pain all over, as if I had been badly beaten.

when a high fever persists, it is the time when the family is most in need of care and care.

however, the decision made by the woman's family after she was diagnosed made her very cold.

the woman's husband returned to his hometown with his children and mother-in-law, a family of three generations.

when the husband says he is afraid of the infection of his children, he doesn't care about the life or death of his wife.

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he took not only the children, but also almost all the goods in the house.

the woman woke up in the middle of the night and wanted some fruit, which made her collapse even more.

there is only a rotten banana and a rotten pear left in the cabinet.

what is more exasperating is that the pear, which looks good on the surface, can be picked up and there is a huge black hole.

her husband and mother-in-law took away all the intact fruit, leaving only the rotten and rotten ones, that is, the "nutrition" they left her.

physical discomfort, coupled with psychological differences, made the woman break down and cry bitterly.

the woman said that usually the family has a good relationship, but unexpectedly, when they need it most, they do things so ruthlessly.

after the video was sent out, it quickly rushed into hot search and attracted 200 million attention.

netizens are very confused and angry about the behavior of the woman's husband.

some people say, "it's just positive. I didn't expect to encounter this kind of thing. How can such a family live with divorce the first thing that turns negative?"

some people say, "it's understandable for a mother-in-law to go with her child, but what's going on with her husband?"

others said, "even the fruits are packed and taken away, but what if you have a serious illness after that?"

to tell you the truth, after watching this video, I also feel sad.

people are more vulnerable when they are ill. If people around them don't take care of them, even if they only care about themselves, no matter how good their feelings are, they can't stand the chill caused by throwing away their helmets and armour at critical moments.

husband and wife share joys and sorrows.

but with such a husband, if he is in trouble and suffers, he will not only fail to help, but even run away.

an epidemic situation, tested negative, positive, and human nature.

there is a saying on the Internet that in today's world, people and ghosts are distinguished between yin, yang and yang.

and many problems in marriage are also exposed in special periods.

there is a problem with Zhihu:

"my wife is 8 months pregnant and has become positive. Is it appropriate to be separated from your wife? "

the questioner said: his wife is eight months pregnant and has been positive for four days, with meals delivered by her mother-in-law across the street every day.

now he is coming home from a business trip and his wife, who is isolated by himself, wants him to go home and take care of him.

but the questioner did not want to go home, for fear of infection, he stayed at his parents' house and delivered a meal to his wife at that time.

so, with a big face, he asked on the Internet: is it appropriate to separate from his wife at this time?

after reading these descriptions, I just feel that the slot is boring.

in this situation, even if you don't go home to take care of your wife, you won't be positive?

being so afraid of infection, I simply bought two cases of instant noodles for my wife and ate them until she was born.

what is more exasperating is that he said in the follow-up:

"my wife's body temperature has dropped, and I am positive. Even if I want to go back, my wife won't let me go back. "

when he was positive, he still didn't go home with his wife.

but also throw all the pots and pans of their own yang to his wife.

does not deserve to be a husband or a father!

when I say this, I am not saying that love is only when the wife is infected and the husband has to be positive.

but you keep saying that you are worried, but you abandon them like shoes in action, leaving your 8-month-old pregnant wife to carry it on her own. is that your worry?

this is just a minor illness, so I dislike it. If something big happens, what else can I expect from you?

and another netizen posted a post that made people feel very worried.

her husband is young, and her mother-in-law is afraid to go to the hospital to take care of her.

she had just finished a caesarean section, a person dragging an unbearable body, taking care of the little ones, eating and drinking, and giving her husband tea and medicine.

can only choose to be discharged on the third day.

and then because she took care of her husband, she was also infected with COVID-19 during the month.

A woman has just gone from the dead door, and there is no time to heal the wound on her body. Her body is very weak. As a result, she still has a big one to take care of.

I know that Yang is really painful, but it still feels incredible to keep my wife, who has just had a major operation, busy.

some women said that after her husband died, she was bedridden and the fruit was cut and brought to bed.

the fever has gone down on the fourth day after her husband died, and at this time she has been hit, but her husband is still bedridden and boiled a pot of porridge, all into his own stomach.

she and her son are both positive, and no one is as weak as her husband.

there are people who are pregnant for eight months and take care of a positive husband, who has to eat five meals a day.

some people arrive at the due date and take care of their husband who is positive. The other person is being waited on and does not cooperate with each other.

some pregnant women have compared their performance with that of her husband Yang and found that her husband is as weak as Lin Daiyu, while she is like an iron man, and the burden of serving others naturally falls on her own head.

it is not that they are not painful or tired or uncomfortable, but that they have a life in their eyes and their families in their hearts.

if you see a person clearly, you will understand after an illness.

I remember that Zhang Quanling said in "Strange stories": "do you think that when you are married, you will not be single mothers?"

this sentence tells how many women are in marriage.

I always think that marriage can protect people from the wind and rain.

in fact, that unreliable person brings you all the wind and rain.

Human nature is the most difficult to look directly at, even if it is as intimate as a pillow, when disaster comes, the depth and complexity of human nature is also revealed.

what kind of partner is worth trusting?

the man in Tianjin made an excellent demonstration for the whole network.

he received a call from his wife saying that he had a fever.

to my wife's surprise, by the time she woke up in a drowsy sleep, her husband had already driven thousands of miles home with large and small bags of medicine.

he also has a job, and he is also afraid of viruses, but in his eyes, his sick wife at home alone is more important than that.

in Liaoning, after a woman confirmed that she was positive, her husband made a shop on the floor at the door in order to be there whenever he called.

he put water and fruit in front of him in order to bring them to his wife in the first place.

Sichuan, after a man became positive, he planned to carry it through, playing games, sleeping, and taking medicine, and didn't care.

when his wife became positive, he attached great importance to it, took his temperature, washed the fruit, cooked, and took good care of the medicine every day.

the woman said that although she usually had a lot of quarrels, she found that he was a very reliable person when she really needed it.

the epidemic situation is a demon mirror, and it is also the test of human nature.

it shows you that when it is possible to make a partial sacrifice, he will choose to sacrifice you or himself;

it makes you aware that the husband who says he loves you really takes you to heart.

it makes you see clearly that sometimes the person close to you is not necessarily the one who loves you the most.

now many young people say they are afraid of marriage, and many people are puzzled. What on earth are they afraid of?

is actually the fear of human nature.

what they are afraid of is not the marriage itself, but the person who is entrusted with it.

I am afraid of giving everything, only to find that I don't know anyone at last.

it's not that women want more, just hope that when they are most tired, when they are most scared and need support, there is a man who picks up her shoulder, holds her hand, and tells her that I am here.

I really like the definition of "emotional account" in psychology.

living between two people is like opening a bank account.

A person who is kind to you is to deposit money in an account, but if it is not good for you, it is to withdraw money.

in a good marriage, only by giving together can the emotional account increase smoothly.

this kind of marriage will last long.

the combination of two people is bound to go through secular training, trivial and major tests, put away the selfish aspects of each other's human nature, and put the other party and the family first in everything.

then you can be sure that the person around you is worth carrying with you for a lifetime.

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