what's the most arrogant cheating man you've ever seen?

some time ago, the behavior of a husband in Enshi, Hubei Province after having an affair simply refreshed netizens' cognition.

at first, Ms. Wen found out that her husband Qin had an affair and decisively sued for divorce and separated from him.

it is only natural for a wife to ask for a divorce before her husband cheats on her. Never thought,

Qin

someone is not only unrepentant, but also ready to take revenge.

one day, Ms. Wen took her daughter to the hospital, but she was forced to stop by Qin on the way.

after waiting for Ms. Wen to get out of the car, crazy Qin was going to hit her with his car.

when I saw this, I thought it had gone too far, but

Qin

has not stopped.

seeing that the collision did not succeed, Qin forcibly got into Ms. Wen's car and punched and kicked Ms. Wen.

obviously, this is no longer an ordinary marriage dispute, but a crazy test on the brink of breaking the law.

after the story spread on the Internet, netizens were also infuriated by Qin's vicious behavior:

"cheating is still so rampant?"

"how thick is the cheating if you dare to beat others without getting divorced when you cheat?"

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there are many similar comments.

Why are we so angry?

We often think that if we marry the wrong person, divorce is only the worst outcome, and Ms. Wen's experience is obviously beyond everyone's tolerance.

she was obviously betrayed by her marriage and was hurt twice.

after discovering that she was entrusted with the wrong person, she obviously tried her best to escape the scum man, but in the end she could not escape the scum man's revenge.

what is more sad is that there are many women like her around us.

this incident reminds me of Ning Shunhua's divorce experience in Hunan.

the marriage only lasted less than half a year, but Ning Shunhua suffered a lot.

at first, under the pressure of her parents to urge her to get married, Ning Shunhua and her husband hastily entered into marriage soon after they knew each other.

and getting married too fast, she also failed to see the true face of her husband in time.

she thought it would change over time, but every time her husband promised her verbally, he still went secretly.

after repeated disappointments, Ning Shunhua gave up completely and filed for divorce at the end of 2016.

but no matter how resolute Ning Shunhua's attitude is, the husband does not agree to divorce.

at first, her husband would send a message threatening her and her family that he would retaliate if he divorced.

then it became more and more extreme and crazy.

during the second lawsuit, the husband directly blocked her lawyer's car, smashed the car glass on the road, and injured her father's left eye that night.

the worst occurred in 2019.

her husband, with three friends, forced her to stop her car, pulled her out of the door, grabbed her hair and smashed her to the ground.

she was stunned directly.

when she regained consciousness a little, she found that several people were carrying her into the car.

he said: "only I can give her happiness." Even if he gave me 10 million, he wouldn't agree to a divorce. "

you will find that whether it is Ms. Wen or Ning Shunhua, their husbands have the same mentality: if they don't get it, they will destroy it.

but where is love?

it is clearly their desire to control and dominate.

this pile is telling us one by one:

emotional breakdown is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you can't get out of a failed marriage all the time.

A good marriage brings happiness, but a bad marriage brings torture.

these women trapped in unhappy marriages, like drowning people, struggle to surface again and again and are brutally pressed again and again.

Marriage is a besieged city, it is easy to come in, but if you want to go out, you have to face all kinds of obstacles and practical considerations.

how hard is it for women to escape from a failed marriage?

the first thing you have to face is the husband's entanglement and threat.

do you remember Ram who loves to laugh?

after being subjected to domestic violence, she chose to escape early, but her ex-husband refused to let her go.

she thought she could escape harm by escaping to a relative's house, but her sister and father were injured unexpectedly.

finally, young Ram fell in the third month after the divorce.

what is more frightening is that even if you succeed in divorce, you sometimes have to face the entanglement of your ex-husband.

A video of a masked man breaking into his ex-wife's home in Shandong recently went viral on the Internet.

he hid in front of his ex-wife's house in advance, rushed out the moment his ex-wife opened the door, and dragged her and her children into the house.

he is like a nightmare, appearing in his ex-wife's life all the time, everywhere.

secondlyAnd have to face the advice of family and relatives.

as the old saying goes, "it is better to tear down a temple than destroy a marriage."

now, this expectation of a happy marriage has become a cage that many women can't get rid of.

Su Min also experienced a suffocating marriage before she left home.

her husband is cold and selfish, unwilling to spend a penny for her, and often beats her.

the long-term repression of her painful marriage life made her suffer from severe depression.

but her mother has always believed that "everything is happy at home", opposes her divorce and does not support her idea of running away from the family.

she told her mother about her despair, and her mother only advised her:

"he's not cheating or getting divorced, he's just a little stingy, and he can live on if he can."

there are others because of the fetters of the children.

earlier, the surveillance video of "the biological father beating the baby" was released, which angered many people.

in the video, the couple quarreled over family chores, while the baby burst into tears.

the man first reprimanded angrily, but it didn't work, so he slapped the child in the face and then grabbed the baby by the neck.

it's hard to imagine, how can he do it for such a young child?

it is said that children are the mother's biggest weakness.

they would rather be aggrieved than hurt their children at all.

and many people always choose to be patient because they do not want to leave their children with a broken childhood, both aggrieved and unwilling.

break your teeth and swallow in your stomach

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think of a sentence said by the British novelist Alan de Bolton:

"marrying the wrong person is a mistake that any of us can easily make, and it may be the most expensive mistake in our lives."

Marriage is an adventure. Once they enter the wrong marriage, they can't leave and can't escape.

We cannot and should not ignore the plight of these women.

seeing and understanding is the first step in helping them.

if you are a parent, please listen to their feelings more.

No one went to divorce at the beginning, and all left because of enough disappointment and grievance.

if there are people around you who have experienced the same unhappy marriage, please try your best to understand and speak out.

both the comfort of their families and the support of public opinion are the strength for them to get out of the predicament.

of course, talking so much is not to keep people away from marriage, but in the hope that people can treat marriage events more carefully.

Marriage is not a scourge, happy marriages can be found everywhere, but we just need to keep our eyes open.

I have heard such a sentence:

"getting married in a hurry before you learn to love yourself and find someone who can be your soul mate is tantamount to giving your life to eternal loneliness."

Marriage is related to the happiness of our whole life, and we can't be too careful.

before you get married, be sure to understand all aspects of each other and don't make a hasty decision.

once you find a bad sign, stay away from it as soon as possible. Don't always make excuses for the other person and expect him to reflect and repent.

if you find the wrong person when you are in love, it is difficult to be right after marriage.

if you are already struggling in a painful marriage, don't give up fighting and resistance.

Silence and compromise are connivance, which will only bring deeper harm and make the perpetrators more deserved and complacent.

it is a better choice to learn to come forward and protect yourself with the law.

, I hope everyone can avoid all kinds of traps in marriage and find someone who is really worth trusting for life.

break your teeth and swallow in your stomach

.

think of a sentence said by the British novelist Alan de Bolton:

"marrying the wrong person is a mistake that any of us can easily make, and it may be the most expensive mistake in our lives."

Marriage is an adventure. Once they enter the wrong marriage, they can't leave and can't escape.

We cannot and should not ignore the plight of these women.

seeing and understanding is the first step in helping them.

if you are a parent, please listen to their feelings more.

No one went to divorce at the beginning, and all left because of enough disappointment and grievance.

if there are people around you who have experienced the same unhappy marriage, please try your best to understand and speak out.

both the comfort of their families and the support of public opinion are the strength for them to get out of the predicament.

of course, talking so much is not to keep people away from marriage, but in the hope that people can treat marriage events more carefully.

Marriage is not a scourge, happy marriages can be found everywhere, but we just need to keep our eyes open.

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I have heard such a sentence:

"getting married in a hurry before you learn to love yourself and find someone who can be your soul mate is tantamount to giving your life to eternal loneliness."

Marriage is related to the happiness of our whole life, and we can't be too careful.

before you get married, be sure to understand all aspects of each other and don't make a hasty decision.

once you find a bad sign, stay away from it as soon as possible. Don't always make excuses for the other person and expect him to reflect and repent.

if you find the wrong person when you are in love, it is difficult to be right after marriage.

if you are already struggling in a painful marriage, don't give up fighting and resistance.

Silence and compromise are connivance, which will only bring deeper harm and make the perpetrators more deserved and complacent.

it is a better choice to learn to come forward and protect yourself with the law.

, I hope everyone can avoid all kinds of traps in marriage and find someone who is really worth trusting for life.